This post is dedicated to all the lovebirds out there who want to sprinkle a bit of magic this Valentine’s Day. Are you racking your brain trying to come up what to do this Valentine’s Day? Whether you’re all about sweet talk, acts of service, quality time, thoughtful gifts, or just love a good cuddle, we’ve got your back with ideas that’ll make this Valentine’s Day one for the books.
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If your love language is: Acts of Service
- Breakfast in Bed
Surprise your partner with a delicious homemade breakfast in bed. It could be heart-shaped pancakes, fresh fruit, and their favorite morning beverage. *Side note* If you’re looking for Valentines Day cake ideas see my blog post: Top 5 Most Amazing Valentine’s Day Cake Ideas and Where to Go
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- Home Cooked Meals are Simply The Best.
If you’d like to stay in, cook them their favorite meal for lunch and dinner. If you just take your time and follow a recipe, you’ll be just fine. Or you can make a plan to cook together (see love language: quality time). Look at how cute and on theme this heart shaped pizza is!
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- Complete a Household Task
Identify a chore or task that your partner often handles, and take it upon yourself to complete it. Whether it’s organizing a messy closet or tackling a home project. I know I know this sounds boring, but your effort will be appreciated especially if your partner’s love language is also acts of service.
- Plan a Relaxing Spa day
Valentine’s Day in 2024 happens to be on a weekday, and chances are you and your partner have spent the day working. Bring the spa experience home by drawing a warm bath, lighting scented candles, and treating your partner to a soothing massage to truly unwind.
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- Surprise them at Work
One of the upsides of Valentine’s Day falling on a weekday is the opportunity to surprise your partner at work. Surprise your partner at their workplace with a lunch delivery, favourite flowers, chocolates, or a gift. It’s a thoughtful way to brighten their day. (This gesture also relates to the love language of receiving gifts).
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- Create a Custom Playlist for Them
Curate a playlist of songs that hold special meaning for your relationship. It’s a service that shows you’ve put thought into creating a personalized, sentimental gift.
- Car Detailing
Surprise them by washing and detailing their car. It’s a practical act of service that demonstrates your attention to their preferences. For couples whose love language is acts of service, practicality is a huge turn on!
8. Volunteer Together
Doing volunteer work on Valentine’s Day is a great idea for couples into acts of service. It lets you team up to make a positive difference, bringing you closer and showing you’re a dynamic duo making an impact together.
If your love language is: Quality Time
- Be Spontaneous
Take a train and explore a neighbouring city you’ve yet to discover. Visit a new local cafe that has sparked your curiosity. Embrace spontaneity by trying axe throwing together, living in the moment and savouring quality time.
- Romantic Dinner Date Anyone?
Dress up and hit the town, plan a special dinner date at your favorite restaurant. The focus is on enjoying each other’s company without distractions.
- For the Couple Who Loves the Outdoors
Embark on an outdoor adventure together, such as hiking, biking, or a romantic nature walk. It’s a great way to connect while enjoying the beauty of the outdoors.
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- Movie Marathon + Drinking Game
If you and your partner are movie buffs, this is the perfect Valentine’s Day activity. Stay indoors, grab a cozy heated blanket, microwave some popcorn and you have the coziest Valentines date night ever. A way to take this up a notch is to play drinking games while watching a movie. My partner and I did this one Valentine’s day while watching the movie ‘Love Actually’, for example, we had to drink every time someone says the words “love” or “actually”. (We were sloshed by the end of the night).
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- Romance in the Kitchen
Take a cooking class together. It’s a fun and interactive way to bond while learning new culinary skills. Choose a cuisine you both enjoy. Alternatively, you can have an at home taco night or fondue night.
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- Getaway Car
Plan a weekend getaway to a romantic destination. Book an Airbnb by the beach or book a night at a nice hotel. Spending quality time away from the mundane everyday routine can be quite rejuvenating.
- Play Interactive Games or Puzzles
Enjoy a night of interactive games or work on a challenging puzzle together. It’s a playful way to engage and connect with each other.
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- Attend a Workshop Together
If you and your partner enjoy being creative this is the perfect thing to do this Valentine’s Day. Attend an art or craft workshop together. Whether it’s pottery, painting, or a DIY project, the shared creative experience can be both enjoyable and meaningful. If you’re doing pottery, you guys can totally recreate the iconic Demi Moore and Patrick Swayze moment from the movie Ghost. You can also try this at home sculpting kit or this diy vodka infusion kit together.
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- Plan a Romantic Picnic Date
Surprise your partner by having a picnic date. You can take this up a notch by planning a stargazing picnic at night, bring a couple of blankets to keep warm, snacks and spend the evening stargazing. It’s a peaceful and romantic way to connect under the night sky.
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- Visit a Museum and Gallery
Explore a museum or art gallery together. It provides an opportunity for meaningful conversations and shared appreciation for culture and art.
- Attend a Concert or a Live Performance
Whether it’s a concert, play, or comedy show, attending a live performance can create lasting memories and offer a shared experience.
- For the Picture Perfect Bae
Take your camera with you and go on a photography adventure, capturing moments and scenes that catch your eye. It’s a creative and enjoyable way to spend quality time together. To add to the romantic moment, try using a polaroid camera to take photos. I’m sure you can imagine it like a romantic montage in a romance film.
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- Go to Paris (without actually going)
You may not be able to take your loved one to the city of love but what’s stopping you from preparing a French themed Valentine’s date. Begin the evening with a bottle of wine, craft some hors d’oeuvres or assemble a personalized cheese platter, and either cook or order French cuisine online. Cap off the night with a classic French film and indulge in creme brulee and crepes for dessert – bon appétit!
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If your love language is: Words of Affirmation
- Write to them
Write a heartfelt love letter or poem expressing your feelings for your partner. Take the time to truly reflect on specific qualities you love about your partner and share those sentiments with them. For a lexiphile, a romantic letter means the absolute world to them.
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- Create a Memory Jar
Fill a jar with notes recalling special memories, affirmations, and reasons why you love your partner. They can pick a note each day leading up to Valentine’s Day.
- Record a Heart-Warming Message
Record a sweet and affirming message on video or audio. You can share memories, express your love, and let your partner know how much they mean to you. This is also a good Valentine’s Day idea for couples who are in a long distance relationship.
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- Create a Scrapbook
Create a scrapbook filled with with affirmations, quotes, and memories of your relationship. It creates a visual reminder of your love and appreciation for each other.
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- Play Couple Games
For couples whose love language is words of affirmation, playing card games is the perfect way to engage in meaningful conversations, connect on a deeper level, and strengthen the bond in your relationship. Plus, it’s so fun and entertaining!
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If your love language is: Receiving Gifts
- A Gift Basket Filled with all Their Favorite Things
Create a personalized gift basket filled with your partner’s favorite treats, snacks, and small items that hold sentimental value.
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- Jewelry with Meaning
Choose jewelry that has a special meaning or significance, such as a piece that represents a shared memory or symbolizes your relationship. You can also take it up a notch by getting customized jewelry. Gift jewelry that can be personalized with names, initials, or significant dates, making it a unique and cherished keepsake.
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- Experience Gifts
If you’re uncertain about what to give your partner this Valentine’s Day and their love language is receiving gifts, consider the gift of an experience. Arrange a special outing like concert tickets, a weekend getaway, or a spa day, customized to your partner’s tastes. For those who enjoy beauty treatments, surprise them by purchasing a gift card or pre-booking an appointment with their favorite nail or lash technician.
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- Clothes and Accessories
Can’t go wrong with surprising your partner with clothes and accessories that they’ve been eyeing for a while but never got around to getting. You can also get them something that reminds you of them. If your partner loves to game this T shirt is perfect. These matching magnet socks are so cute!
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- Tech Gadgets
Gift your partner with the perfect tech gadget or accessory that aligns with their interests – such as headphones, a smartwatch, or a smart home device.
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- Engraved Items
Items like jewelry, keychains, or glassware that can be engraved with a meaningful message or date like the first date you and your partner met or your first kiss.
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If your love language is: Physical Touch
- Couples Massage and Aromatherapy
Enjoy a relaxing and intimate experience together by either booking a couples massage session or having a DIY massage station at home, taking turns giving each other relaxing massages.
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- Dance the Night Away
Create a playlist of your favorite songs and have a private dance night at home, holding each other close. Or Take a dance class together, whether it’s ballroom, salsa, or any other dance style that allows for physical connection.
3. Couples Yoga
Practice couples yoga, which involves poses that encourage physical touch, balance, and shared relaxation.
4. Decorate your bedroom for a romantic night
Decorating your bedroom with soft lighting and romantic decor to spice things up and set the stage for an intimate night on Valentine’s Day.
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So there you have it! The ultimate Valentine’s Day guide to serenading your partner according to your love language. I hope this post has given you plenty of ideas on what to do this Valentine’s Day. Whether you’re penning love letters, cooking up a storm, or planning a cozy night in, remember that the best celebrations are the ones that feel just right for you both. Don’t forget to also focus on you, pick an outfit, choose your shoes, select your scent, the more prepared you are the less stressed. You want to keep in mind, it’s not the amount of money but the amount of effort you put in. Here’s to a day filled with love, laughter, and tons of romance. Happy Valentine’s Day, you awesome duo! <3
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